Men = the better they are at being hunters, warriors and to some extent leaders the higher the chance they have to reproduce. Women = need to be beautiful not for themselves, but for the males to succeed at what if pretty much their only important role; to give birth. No collection of random hippie/devil wears Prada quotes is going to change thousands upon thousands of years of evolution. Impress the men by taking care of your selves, acting feminine, and treating your chosen one with respect. Adopt a “I am beautiful inside” regardless of being severely overweight etc and instead of happiness through a loving family and such you will end up with 5-8 cats. HIPPIES DO NOT WANT YOU TO UNDERSTAND THIS CAREFUL.