I lost my wife last year to cancer…it is an insidious disease, not just eating away your body but also your dreams, wishes…Life itself. To Lucia, your daughter is beautiful…and she still IS. It’s just her body is not here but she lives on. Trust me on this.

My wife wrote this 2 months before she passed away:

“How dare you?! How DARE you! How dare you interrupt MY LIFE!

You think you can just walk in and interrupt my life?! You DARE stand in between my plans for my future?! My hopes?! My dreams?! Who the FUCK do you think you are??!

You disrupt my life with just your miserable presence! You disgust me! You dare stop me from feeding my children?! You dare stop me from attending my daughter’s wedding?!

You are such a coward that you come so sneakily from behind! Not a sound and not a word…then you take over my life! You Hijack my life! You depress me, poison my thoughts and try to lead me away from my people to your dark abyss!!

You try to slash and tear my body apart! You try to consume my very soul! Did you think I would let you! DID YOU THINK I WOULD LET YOU! Let a COWARD like you have MY SOUL!!! How DARE you try to kill me and hurt my loved ones!

How dare you??! How DARE you interrupt MY LIFE, Cancer?!!