C-Section Scars Are Beautiful And So Are You - A Beautiful Body Project

C-Section Scars Are Beautiful And So Are You

Theresa My sun sign is Cancer and sometimes I have to bribe myself out of my house with promises of smoothies and iced Americanos. I know so many beautiful people and yet I have few close friends. This woman is one of my closest friends. I introduce to you, lovers of life who visit this blog, my beloved sister-friend Theresa. Mother of one, loved by thousands. Theresa is an amazing massage therapist and heals with her hands as much as she loves with her heart. With tears in her eyes and shaky hands, she volunteered to be photographed for this project to share her divine c-section scar, her delicious skin, her radiant irreplaceable beauty.

Words From Theresa:

Why was it so difficult to do this shoot...

Beside the fact that 100's (1000's) of unknown eyes would potentially be viewing my body, I was stepping into an unknown altogether within myself of willingness to be exposed. The deep kind of willingness that says yes to whatever it is looks like (whatever I end up looking like) and how ever it turns out. I let go and show up to participate because there is something greater here than my own fear, embarrassment, shame or sadness.

I was being given the opportunity to allow memories to resurface and emotions to be felt and seen, as I stood bare with each story being read across my body lines. This participation in something greater is joining with a community of like minded beings all over the world to say, we are beautiful, just as we are, and here, see me? I'm willing to put myself in that category no matter all the analyzing and judgments and opinions.. my gosh the list of how do I get rid of this, and how do I look like that, and I wish I could wear that, and oh I'll just never be quite right, never good enough, let alone beautiful.

Standing there in my naked body before a camera, THANK GOD with Jade's eyes behind the lens, I was able to set aside the shame of all my not-good-enoughness and embrace my body with gratitude for all it has been through. I felt so brave! I felt inspired too, that so many other women have had the courage to show up and share their body stories in this same way. To be a part of a revolution of redefining a woman's beauty all over the world….thats worth it all. I hope that someday, when my son is older, he might have more understanding that we can live in a world where beauty is acknowledged in every shape, size and color of body.

Where the possibility exists to live in a world where true acceptance of our physical appearances is as unquestioning as when we adore a rose or any other amazing creation. I've never heard anyone judge the night sky as having too many stars, or the ocean for being too blue, or the old Eucalyptus tree in my yard for being too tall and having a too large trunk. I'm excited to celebrate this new freedom, feeling beautiful in my body, just as it is. Thank you to one of the most truly generous pioneers of healing, Jade….Thank you.

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commented 2015-03-04 11:47:24 -0700 · Flag
C-Section Scars Are Beautiful And So Are You http://bit.ly/1FXt8em via @abeautbodyproj
commented 2013-12-03 08:56:25 -0700 · Flag
Merci
Thank you i’m crying all my tears but thank you, thank you so much. It’s sometimes so hard.
commented 2013-10-04 04:00:56 -0700 · Flag
Beautiful! Having had the honor of being present at the birth which created this love mark - I can attest to the grace and strength of You, Brave Woman. xoxo!
commented 2013-09-07 17:42:34 -0700 · Flag
you are beautiful
commented 2013-09-03 18:32:43 -0700 · Flag
Thank you for sharing. It is true, when we give birth we are left with a reminder or two or ten of just what being a woman is all about “The giver of life”. Very powerful and indeed very special. One can only repeat what was overheard at a pig hunters meet when men were comparing scars from their pig hunting experiences, that came with big as stories to boot. A woman step up to show them her scars and when she lifted her shirt to reveal her stretch marks this size of ropes, the men all cringed and laughed. "What, they all said, they are not scars, what do you call them. RIGHT OF PASSAGE was her answer. Not one man said another word.
commented 2013-08-28 10:15:49 -0700 · Flag
Such an inspiring real life story! You are so brave to do this! I know how hard it must have been for you to open your life and share with everyone your story and your photos. Your body is beautiful. It is not just a vessel for living, but it is a tool, a tool for many things. One of those things is giving birth. When you look at your scar, it is a reminder of your little sunshine! He is the reason you have that scar. What a great reason to have a scar! I know when I look at my many, many stretch marks, I am also reminded of my three children. I am blessed to see my scars (some of which I just know were from my son) and know my body was used to grow what are now your nieces and nephew. I love you!!
commented 2013-08-26 22:31:12 -0700 · Flag
Thank each of you glorious women for sharing….I too, bear this scar with absolute amazement and gratitude. Everyday I look at my son and feel awe that he is alive and that there are options for women in birthing our children.
Im also incredibly grateful to have the opportunity to share the healing I have gone through (in stages!) to celebrate this scar so easily. It hasnt always been so….. and knowing that each of you too…share this journey with me!
and yes Lisa..we are beautiful because of these precious marks..not despite them!!! (and Terri, the fact that you would gladly do it all over again..WOW. That isnt just beautiful, that is gorgeous. YOU are gorgeous.) Thanks Mamas…again..many blessings!!!
commented 2013-08-26 20:11:58 -0700 · Flag
Now I have eyes full of tears. I too hope that my son and daughter will move through life loving themselves and their partners just as they are. Thank you, Theresa, for being brave and sharing your story.
commented 2013-08-26 18:51:25 -0700 · Flag
So lovely to be able to see and to show my tiny 9 year old that it’s ok that I have many scars and marks (2 -Csects, 2 other abdominal surgeries a hysterectomy and 2 hernia repair). I would be lying if I said that I think my body is beautiful; I wish I felt that way. Most important is that I have beautiful twins and their beautiful big brother and I’d gladly do it all again for them.
commented 2013-08-26 18:04:07 -0700 · Flag
i also have a C-section scar, and not happy with it. still have a lower stomach to , cant get rid of it. but my daughter came out of me and that’s great.
commented 2013-08-26 17:57:37 -0700 · Flag
I have one too, I call it my smile. It’s where my babies safely came out and nothing has ever made me happier.
commented 2013-08-26 17:33:50 -0700 · Flag
I have a c-section scar too. I call it the little shelf that holds up my underwear! I was never a bikini person, so it has never really bothered me. It is definitely time for women to know that they are beautiful BECAUSE of the scars,stretch marks,wrinkles,freckles,birth marks…..etc. not despite them.
commented 2013-08-26 16:55:50 -0700 · Flag
This is beautiful! Thank you for sharing your journey! I have two csection scars now after three csections. I am happy to know and see there are others who bare the beautiful scars of love!
commented 2013-08-26 16:45:24 -0700 · Flag
Beautiful story and beautiful mother, woman and spirit. :) :)
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